Sorry to be the bearer of common sense, but if we “just vote” we may lose our democracy. The “Just Vote” campaign doesn’t acknowledge the real work that must happen alongside voting—such as learning to have civil conversations with people whose views oppose ours. Here’s what must happen before Nov. 3:
Revive civil dialogue: Reach out to 10 friends in swing states and have a conversation about politics. Be civil or, better yet, be vulnerable. As author Brenda Salter McNeil (Becoming Brave: Finding the Courage to Pursue Racial Justice Now), notes: “Partisanship is about what party you choose. Politics is about the policy that impacts people’s lives and we should all be talking about that.”
Honest conversation can heal our divided country—and convert conservatives. In 2016, when a friend announced his support for Donald Trump, I nearly ended our friendship. Instead, after Trump boasted he could grab women “by the pussy,” I called my friend to say: “I’ve been sexually harassed, and it feels like being punched in the face on the job. It’s painful to hear Trump behaving as though women are property.” When Trump slammed immigrants, I called again: “I’m a person of color and an immigrant. Trump supports the Klu Klux Klan. That’s disturbing. I don’t see you aligning with white supremacists.” I kept a heart-centered dialogue going with him and with other Trump-supporting acquaintances because studies show people vote based on feelings, not rational thought.
Honest conversation can heal our divided country—and convert conservatives.
On election day, my friend called: “I was in the voting booth and heard your voice in my head. I voted for Hillary.” Days later, several Republican acquaintances told me the same thing. Imagine that action sweeping the country.
School yourself on tech: Social media is a behavior modification system. Its algorithms increase engagement by stoking negativity toward views that oppose our own. As digital philosopher and author Jaron Lanier said recently in GQ magazine: “In exchange for likes and retweets and public photos of your kids, you are basically signing up to be a data serf for companies that can make money only by addicting and then manipulating you.” Voter, heal thyself! Slash your screen time. Practice compassion and curiosity while listening to others in real life. Free yourself from serfdom by protecting your brain’s neural network.
Secure your digital footprint: Hackers have interfered in previous U.S. elections; don’t help them. Set your online privacy settings to limit data collection and sharing. Delete unused email addresses. Type your name into social media platforms to see whether your account is spoofed. If so, report it. Stop forwarding viral videos in apps such as Messenger. Most have AI embedded and are collecting data. Stop using social accounts to sign into other sites. Get a subscription to Wired magazine, too. “The ignorance of one voter in a democracy impairs the security of all,” said President John F. Kennedy in 1963. It’s still true.
Election night may trump Halloween as the scariest night of the year—unless Democrats start talking to Republicans and undecided voters. Evidence doesn’t matter. Positive emotions do. So, speak up. Tell memorable, values-based personal stories that illustrate the danger of another four years with President Trump.
Trump supports the Klu Klux Klan. This is 100% fake news so maybe you should inform yourself before sharing your ill-informed ‘facts’ with others.
I will let you in on a secret – only the loonies on the Left would ever end a friendship over the support of a political party. So, when you call your friend three times with your fake news like above, you didn’t change their mind, they are just sick of listening to your lies so they told you they supported Hillary so you would drop it.
As to your ‘slammed immigrants’ nonsense, you forgot a word – ILLEGAL. Pretty important distinction there for most sentient people. As to your last criticism of Trump “I’ve been sexually harassed”…well, then it is safe to assume you won’t vote for Biden with the Tara Reade rape allegation unresolved? Let me guess, you are one of those ‘believe all women until they accuse a Democrat’ kind of hypocrites. In the words of Joe Biden to another woman, stop being such a lying dog faced pony soldier!
Don’t “just vote”, vote Democrat. The policies of both parties are open books. Choose one and cast or don’t cast the ballot. The previous comment is quite right about the omission of “ILLEGAL.” That is done about 100% of the time. Undocumented. What is that? HM
Trump does indeed appear to support white nationalists such as the Klan, the Proud Boys, Boogaloo and many others. Note in 2016 David Duke , the wizard of Klandom, endorsed Trump. Head of the FBI recently said the white nationalists are the real problem, not BLM. Balanced news sources worth viewing for political news: ABC, CNN NBC.