Ask Joey

Learning to embrace your inner-shadow.

Respect doesn’t mean lack of attraction.

Older guy can’t make plans. Teenager guy texts his gf too much. Hmm.

Obsessing over an old relationship isn’t attachment—it’s addiction.

Lack of trust will tear down a relationship in a hurry.

There’s no reason to audition for a spot on Jerry Springer.

Joey sez: Know when to fold ’em.

Does your life sound like a script for The OC? Then it’s time for a re-write.

When confronted with powerlessness, there are ways to find peace.

If you’ve got to count something, count your blessings.

Yes, men and women can be friends—if they’re grown-ups.

Perfectionism isn’t a virtue.

That “charge” you feel? It’s more likely to be anxiety than love.

Jealousy: It gets you nowhere.

Joey says: Take risks. Then she swoons.

Cope with despair by facing it.