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Dining drama

Somehow I gave my partner the impression that I don’t think she’s very intelligent. She says I ignore her during group discussions, and I make…

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The legacy of 9/11

Last September 11th I woke from a night’s sleep with the strangest thought: “Something is wrong here.” As I prepared for work that thought repeated…


Try it, you’ll like it

Every time I think about the situation I am about to describe, I ask myself, “What would Joey think?” Here’s the problem: I was dating…


Run, don’t walk

I am a retired female correctional officer who disapproves of the encouragement you gave the woman in love with an inmate. My advice to women…


My brother, the slacker

What do you think of psychic training programs? My 26-year-old brother wants our mom to pay his tuition for such a thing. Over the years…



A daughter’s dilemma

My parents divorced when I was 5 years old. My Dad is really cool and I liked living with him until last year when he…


A time to heal

My daughter was murdered a year ago. I am in counseling but it isn’t helping me deal with my constant, excruciating pain. I find it…



Under a groove

When the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals ruled the Pledge of Allegiance phrase “under God” unconstitutional, my mind conjured George Clinton. In the song…



My mother’s keeper

My brother believes we are responsible for interrupting the isolated life of my 67-year-old mother. His life is established. I am 32 years old, single…


Give what to God?

My mom and I had a rocky relationship in the past, but we have worked hard to get along better in the last year. Since…


Emotional litter

I saw a man in a parking lot drop a piece of trash. I repeated, “I guess you think the ground is a trash can”…


Borrower’s blues

A dear friend who has frequently invited me to borrow her clothes reprimanded me for borrowing an item with sentimental value. She explained that when…


Waiting by the phone

The other day my boyfriend, who I have lived with for almost four years, left home at 8:00 a.m. for a horseshoe tournament. When I…