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The long and short of it

My girlfriend of nine years and I broke up—over shorts. Two years later, I am still really sad about it. I wanted some athletic shorts,…


For the children?

My husband is leaving me for a woman 20 years his junior. I told him she was a threat years ago. He even participated in…


Tired of the hunt

If I date a woman who I have to chase, I get needy, and she breaks up with me. I grovel, trying to get her…


Counselor or therapist?

My husband and I fight a lot. We went to counseling, but I felt let down because the counselor told us what we should not…


Back home

A few years after my divorce, I was seized by the idea that I should seek an annulment. I had no idea why, but the…


Prisoner of fantasy

Two years ago, I began writing to a man in prison. I had heard about his energy for life and his sex appeal. I fell…



The party’s over

Should I end my three-year marriage? I’m nearly 30, and I have outgrown college partying (I don’t drink or smoke), but my husband hasn’t. He…


Heed red flags

After a month of dating a man I met online, I felt it was time for him to meet my 7-year-old son. I invited my…


The virtual other woman

Last November, I received an e-mail at work from a woman I had worked with 15 years prior. We’ve been bantering back and forth, on…


Why spy?

I became friends online with a Canadian man and with a female friend of his in our online community. She told me that they had…



Borderline mom

I am 26 years old and really angry at my mom. She calls me daily for emotional support, and I give it but get none…


War and peace

When my friend Steve’s wife filed for divorce, her reason stunned him. “She said it was because we never argue,” he said. “I thought that…


Lent experiment

I have been married for six years to an unhappy man. He is honest, and we both have professional careers, although he hates his job….


Busted

I am a single dad of a 16-year-old daughter. I discovered that my little girl has been taking herbal breast-enhancement supplements ordered online with a…