Best friend’s seen better
How much should I put up with from a best friend? Now that we live two hours apart, our seven-year friendship consists of occasional phone…
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Step out of line
How do I get my husband to stop jumping every time his grown son wants something? My stepson is 150 pounds overweight. I don’t feel…
If you love yourself …
After a pretty serious relationship, my boyfriend suddenly claimed that he was confused and not ready for the commitment level I wanted. He broke up…
Old-friend blues
I am estranged from a friend that I’ve had since elementary school. Last year when I called her to help me through a devastating divorce,…
Stop this roller coaster!
After 1-1/2 years of living together, my boyfriend’s moodiness and silent treatments drove me crazy. I bought a house, but didn’t even tell him that…
Should I stay or should I go?
My husband of three years is quite comfortable without handholding, warm embraces, compliments, spooning or even sex. When we were dating I was in a…
Finding forgiveness
How do you forgive a husband who had an affair? It wasn’t a very long affair and he cut it off right after he told…
Why wait? Procrastinate!
I have such a huge problem keeping commitments to myself that I fear I will never achieve my life goals. I have procrastinated so much…
I thought I was his first wife
My husband and I have been married for five years, happily I thought. Yesterday I received a phone call from a woman demanding that my…
Surviving the here and now
When I was 15, I met a 23-year-old guy who was leaving town to live with a woman in Seattle. We stole a few kisses….
Six sources of gratitude
Long Lines: It’s mandatory recess. When I’m stuck in an extended and slow-moving queue, I usually close my eyes and drop into meditation or prayer….
Elements of deceit
I got back together with an old boyfriend even though I knew better. At the time, I was raw from other problems and in no…
Trust in time
I’m in a trippy situation and need your perspective. I met a woman last February who seemed to be the one. Three months later, she…
Read my mind and ask me out!
I am attracted to a man who is the director of our division but not my direct boss. When we see each other, I feel…
Outgrowing my girlfriend
I’m 21 years old and my girlfriend is 17. When we began dating last year, she was the most mature girl I had ever met….
Reflections on September 11
A letter to Sacramento.
First love’s end
I’m a 19-year-old male college student. After three years of dating, my girlfriend says she is not in love with me. We were living together…