Voices

Find your egomate

There’s an old saying about life, “We must decide whether we are human doings or human beings.”



Fear belly

Where dietitians can’t help this reader, Joey offers spiritual advice.



Exes and no’s

A long-distance ex desperately wants to be friends, and a God-preaching one wants to have sex again.



Just do it all

Joey lets a college freshman know how to let go of a male friend whose attention she misses, and how an aspiring café owner/singer/environmentalist may not have to choose one path in the end.





Burned out

Readers ask how to deal with stress related to empathy, and how to move forward after college.