Voices

I am estranged from a friend that I’ve had since elementary school. Last year when I called her to help me through a devastating divorce,…

Why do I care about losing an abuser? Our sick relationship (drinking alcohol and fighting a lot) lasted over a year. Last February, he broke…

My girlfriend says she loves me and wants to hang out, but that she cannot be my girlfriend anymore. She moved out. I loved her…

After 1-1/2 years of living together, my boyfriend’s moodiness and silent treatments drove me crazy. I bought a house, but didn’t even tell him that…

My brother physically hit me and verbally abused me as a child. Now, as an adult, I refuse to associate with him. He recently hit…

I’ve been e-mailing a guy in L.A. that I met on the Internet. I have high moral standards and feel that the guy should always…

My husband of three years is quite comfortable without handholding, warm embraces, compliments, spooning or even sex. When we were dating I was in a…

How do you forgive a husband who had an affair? It wasn’t a very long affair and he cut it off right after he told…

Before selecting songs to set the mood for your Valentine, take this test to see if you can tell the difference between love and infatuation….

Aye yi yi! Every once in a while, I’m distressed by the pay inequity between men and women. So when a reader asked who should…

I’ve got a great housing situation (cheap and near my college), but it’s becoming a problem. My roommate (we’re both female) and her boyfriend are…

I live with my boyfriend who I have dated since high school. We have been together for three years and have lived together for 11…

What do you do when you can’t get a guy off your mind? I am a 34-year-old single woman who joined the Naval Reserve a…

I have such a huge problem keeping commitments to myself that I fear I will never achieve my life goals. I have procrastinated so much…

On the last day before Christmas break at my high school, a friend asked if she could talk to me. She has been acting really…

Nearly every week someone asks me what self-help books I read or would recommend. Well, I avoid self-help books and have for years. If I’m…