Articles by Joey Garcia


Aid for the homeless

I have been researching the benefits of moving to San Francisco, where more opportunity exists in my profession. But I hate seeing the streets crawling…




Learn from your drama

I am middle-aged and single, with a solid profession, good friends and a comfortable home. Although I pray to meet the man who is my…


Neatness counts

Valentine’s Day really brought this home for me: I’m in the best relationship I have ever been in. My boyfriend is spiritually centered, intellectually stimulating…


Black and white

My 24-year-old son is biracial but passes for white. I am white, and his father was Nigerian. (He died when my children were young.) My…


Home invasion

My ex-girlfriend came over to my house to have breakfast with my roommate, who is friends with us both. The visit was totally unexpected, and…


Unexpected addictions

Since my husband and I separated two years ago, many bad things have been said and done. Although I did not want to separate, my…


The learning curve

I’m a 27-year-old woman with learning disabilities that cause me to be a moderately slow learner. In the last year, I have had three relationships…


Unraveling family patterns

After a 10-year estrangement, I am trying to have a relationship with my older sister (as children we were both molested by an uncle). We…


Volatile marriage

I never know what to expect at home. My wife and I have had numerous screaming fights, which she admits to initiating. She has grown…


My boss wants an affair

My boss and I are strongly attracted to each other’s sense of humor. We flirt furiously. (It’s an office joke.) The problem is that I…



Agree with me, or else!

I am best friends with a woman who works in another department of our organization. We volunteer for projects that require collaboration across departments because…


Hearing the call

I’m a young professional who has been questioning my purpose in life and, specifically, what my true calling is. I enjoy some aspects of my…