Articles by Joey Garcia

Office gossip

I had sex with a co-worker, and now he’s ruining my life. We went out and had a great time, although he insulted me during…


Almost perfect

My boyfriend has the qualities that I want in a husband: kindness, depth, compassion, generosity and a positive outlook. He is a good communicator with…


From teacher to student

Dear readers, I have met a multitude of spiritual teachers in my lifetime. Many are quite famous, and others are not. My friend Byron Katie…


Three marriages

My wife is an attorney and an activist, known and loved for her devotion to creating social change. I am proud of her, but as…


Spiritual business

My wife and I have built a thriving business enterprise that employs 30 people. When we were a smaller company, it was easy to maintain…


Psycho chick no more

Whenever a guy rejects me after we’ve been going out—whether it was a serious relationship or a brief one—I get angry and lash out at…




Prodigal script

My younger brother, an alcoholic and former drug user, has seldom done anything right. I took care of his two children. In December 1999, sibling…


Just ask!

I’ve been a single mom for five years. Several times a week for the last two years, I have chatted with a wonderful man while…


Stop the argument

I am engaged to marry a man who is five years older than me. My problem is that whenever we argue, he talks down to…


Healthy Marriage 101

My fiancé and I plan to be married in July. I was excited until my aunt and uncle, who have been married for 31 years,…


How far is too far?

Why is it so scary for adults to think that people our age (15 and 16 years old) are having sex? Why is it such…


Step out of the story

My daughter and I have had a strained relationship since she was 4. Her father and I divorced after I learned he molested her. Eventually,…


Ask Joey

Going hermit My last boyfriend lied and cheated. I fell for him, I now realize, because I was lonely. I was also fired from a…


Cheating with porn?

My one long-term relationship ended bitterly when my then-boyfriend cheated. Since then, I have dated cautiously, so I am surprised that I met the man…