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Union maybe?

I work for a large company I believe would benefit from being unionized. I’ve approached the boss about this, but he keeps brushing me off….

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When Mr. Right is married

I met the man of my dreams! He’s sincere, thoughtful, ambitious, intellectually stimulating, tall and handsome, with a sexy smile no girl could resist. He’s…



Where’s the love?

I’m a same-sex attracted male who, until recently, was involved with a group that helped people lose same-sex attractions. I left because it was a…


Get pregnant or else!

I am a 46-year-old man who is very fortunate to have a wonderful daughter. She is such joy that I would like to have another…



Sleepless in Sacramento

It’s 3:21 a.m., and I can’t sleep because I realize I am head over heels for a co-worker. The problem is that I have a…


Bad, bad luck

How do you get rid of bad luck? Six months ago, my boyfriend of nine years and I broke up. Shortly thereafter, I fell down…


Big shot feeling small

I’m a male with a huge ego that I can’t destroy. I put people down—even those who are nice to me, like my friends and…


But I thought you were gay!

I have a friend whose former relationships were homosexual. I guess he’s now bisexual because he fell deeply in love with a young woman (she’s…


More steps to peace

The most common excuse for avoiding the hard work of becoming a peacemaker is the belief that one person can’t make a difference. In response,…


Steps to peace

I’ve always loved the hymn “Let There Be Peace on Earth (and let it begin with me).” The actual labor required to practice nonviolence is…


Learning from failure

My last five relationships all failed. All five women told me from the start that I was everything they were looking for in a man….


Wandering eyes

I have been living with my boyfriend for more than three years. I believe we are in love and are committed to the idea of…



Sex or consequences

Five years ago, I was with a girl. We were sexually irresponsible, and she became pregnant. I was horrified at the thought of having a…


Wherefore art thou single?

Recently, a reader posed the question, “Why is it so hard to meet someone compatible for an intimate, committed relationship?” I invited you to share…