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How long is never ever?

I consciously will myself to let go of my ex-husband, but he fills my thoughts and dreams. He says he “never ever” wants to see…




Porn free

I spend quality intimate time with myself, off and on, but I still struggle with my long attachment to pornography. In an attempt to find…



My enemy, myself

Twelve years ago I divorced a man who committed adultery then left me. I was so afraid to be in a relationship that I waited…







Insight for wandering eyes

I’ve been in a stable, secure relationship for seven years, but during that time I have had four crushes on different people (no action taken)….



Living with herpes

I’m single, not bad looking and fairly well suited for my job, but I’ve had genital herpes for about 14 years. It’s the one sexually…