Dragon ladies
I work with a rude, patronizing back-stabber. She is successful in her career because she possesses undeniable talent, but she only cares about advancing her…
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Surrendering perfection
I am a 28-year-old African-American gay male with a wonderful partner. I have an associate’s degree in computer programming and speak Spanish and French fluently….
Casually speaking
What exactly is casual dating? Does this mean the couple is not dating exclusively? I met a guy about a month ago through a personal…
Codependent some more
I am dating a man who is friends with his ex-wife. They divorced five years ago, and she is now divorcing another man. A few…
A values audit
I’m totally stressed because the company I work for trains people to work well together but does not practice what it preaches. It’s hard to…
You don’t have to go
My partner and I broke up seven years ago after living together for 12 years. We remained close friends. About a year ago, I moved…
No friend but me
My roommate of four years and I are really good friends. We treat each other like sisters. My family loves her, and her family loves…
Holiday etiquette
The holidays are here again! Hey, will someone please tell Pat Robertson that the word “holiday” is a corruption of the words “holy day”? He…
Praise yourself
I left a stressful job and now work as an independent contractor. I just completed a job for an arrogant guy. He isn’t a bad…
Not enough exes?
I have a pathetic dating history. I’ll be 35 years old soon, and I’ve only been in one serious relationship. It was 10 years ago…
Our Father
I dated a co-worker who recently admitted he had another relationship. He made it sound like he had sex with this other woman because I…
Stop calling my man
My boyfriend of six months and I are in love, but a crazy woman is interfering. She goes after him to compete with me so…
Be the love of your own life
My 40-year-old boyfriend slept with a 24-year-old party girl co-worker shortly after he and I talked about purchasing a home together. We have kids from…
Dating a critic
My boyfriend meets a lot of my criteria, but my ego always picks on something he does or says, or the way he looks. My…
Who’s your daddy?
I am pregnant and stuck between two possible fathers. I foolishly told both men that I am pregnant. They both want to be there for…
Who gets the ring?
My friend “Diane” and her fiance broke up, and she needs your advice. Last week, her ex-fiance called and invited her to his son’s football…
Abortion ultimatum
The guy I am dating had a one-night stand with a girl before he and I met, and she is pregnant. He wants nothing to…