Delicate balance
How can I best find balance with family, partner, daughter, alone time, grad school, thesis, intimacy, work, athletics, etc.? Ditch the pie-chart mentality, that perfectionist…
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To click or not to click
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. Lately, I have been feeling like we don’t click, and our conversations seem meaningless….
Victim or savior?
I dated a girl for about a month. There were red flags: lectures I couldn’t grasp the point of, exaggerated focus on herself, a litany…
Who was I?
At 15, I had a brain injury. My family says I am not the same, so I have been searching for the person I am….
Negative motivation
I am 39-year-old, never-married, childless female who is an adult child of two alcoholics (an ACA). I am once again having to look at my…
Beneath the icing
I am 23 years old and have spent nearly two years trying to deal with memories of sexual abuse by my father. I even broke…
Stay present
I’m 32, but I fell in love with a 22-year-old. I don’t usually date guys this young, but our relationship was wonderful. I gave more…
But I didn’t cheat!
After 40 years apart, my high-school sweetheart and I reconnected. Her first two husbands beat her regularly before leaving to be with other women or…
Intuitively speaking
What are your thoughts regarding intuition, specifically women’s intuition? Is it important to pay attention to your gut feelings? Is it ever right to ignore…
Dreading a talk with mama
I am a black man in my mid-30s and recently began wearing my hair in dreadlocks. After a wonderful visit with my mom (she lives…
No child, left behind
I am a 35-year-old man married for six years to a 40-year-old woman. My wife has fertility problems. We tried in-vitro fertilization, but no luck….
Are my needs your responsibility?
My husband is in Iraq serving in the military, and we’ve been apart three years. He calls and e-mails, but he’s not affectionate long-distance. My…
Outcome seekers
Scarce second dates and self-trust issues.
Bitter about litter
Wherever I go, people litter. Someone in the car in front of me throws wrappers into the street. A young man walking down the sidewalk…
Pinings for siblings, lunches with exes
I am in love with my sister, and it causes me anguish. Before you cast a moral judgment, my sister is not a sister in…
The long and short of it
My girlfriend of nine years and I broke up—over shorts. Two years later, I am still really sad about it. I wanted some athletic shorts,…
For the children?
My husband is leaving me for a woman 20 years his junior. I told him she was a threat years ago. He even participated in…