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Bitter about litter

Wherever I go, people litter. Someone in the car in front of me throws wrappers into the street. A young man walking down the sidewalk…



The long and short of it

My girlfriend of nine years and I broke up—over shorts. Two years later, I am still really sad about it. I wanted some athletic shorts,…


For the children?

My husband is leaving me for a woman 20 years his junior. I told him she was a threat years ago. He even participated in…


Tired of the hunt

If I date a woman who I have to chase, I get needy, and she breaks up with me. I grovel, trying to get her…


Counselor or therapist?

My husband and I fight a lot. We went to counseling, but I felt let down because the counselor told us what we should not…


Back home

A few years after my divorce, I was seized by the idea that I should seek an annulment. I had no idea why, but the…


Prisoner of fantasy

Two years ago, I began writing to a man in prison. I had heard about his energy for life and his sex appeal. I fell…



The party’s over

Should I end my three-year marriage? I’m nearly 30, and I have outgrown college partying (I don’t drink or smoke), but my husband hasn’t. He…


Heed red flags

After a month of dating a man I met online, I felt it was time for him to meet my 7-year-old son. I invited my…


The virtual other woman

Last November, I received an e-mail at work from a woman I had worked with 15 years prior. We’ve been bantering back and forth, on…


Why spy?

I became friends online with a Canadian man and with a female friend of his in our online community. She told me that they had…