Turning darkness into purity
Learning to embrace your inner-shadow.
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You can’t lose what you don’t have
Respect doesn’t mean lack of attraction.
Last-minute lothario
Older guy can’t make plans. Teenager guy texts his gf too much. Hmm.
He’s addicted, not attached
Obsessing over an old relationship isn’t attachment—it’s addiction.
Celebrate what works
Lack of trust will tear down a relationship in a hurry.
No drama, please—we’re healthy
There’s no reason to audition for a spot on Jerry Springer.
The gambler
Joey sez: Know when to fold ’em.
Cancel this show
Does your life sound like a script for The OC? Then it’s time for a re-write.
Making it through the night
When confronted with powerlessness, there are ways to find peace.
Count blessings, not money
If you’ve got to count something, count your blessings.
Just friends, really
Yes, men and women can be friends—if they’re grown-ups.
Don’t fear being human
Perfectionism isn’t a virtue.
That’s not love: It’s anxiety
That “charge” you feel? It’s more likely to be anxiety than love.
A mother’s prayer
It’s not easy raising kids in Valley Hi, one of Sacramento’s most violent neighborhoods. Just ask Rhonda Erwin. By R.V. Scheide Yea, though I walk…
Getting rid of the green monster
Jealousy: It gets you nowhere.
Take risks, speak truth
Joey says: Take risks. Then she swoons.
Threefold marriage
Cope with despair by facing it.