How to lose friends and alienate people
Advice to readers to take control and avoid the drama.
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Destroy the lies that bind you
Hot sex, hot fights and the hard, cold truth about kicking out an ex.
60,000 foster children in need of adoption
Names of 60,000 foster kids are read aloud on National Adoption Awareness Day.
Credit where it’s due
The Occupy movement storms an Oakland Bank of America branch; the bank faces public-relations nightmare; the bank gives money to Sacramento-area heroes and nonprofits.
Big but not easy
Six years later, New Orleans has lessons for Sacramento.
Body by love
A reader is advised to deal with her body shame—not her husband’s.
Obama’s American Jobs Act could work; Republican plan won’t
U.S. Department of Agriculture Secretary Tom Vilsack comes to Sacramento to promote Obama’s American Jobs Act.
Grow some love
Advice to a reader to check herself before she wrecks herself.
Paradigm shift
Sacramento region needs to reshape its job market as state government jobs are cut.
Post 911, we are all connected
Despite our diversity, underneath we are very much the same.
Daddy issues
Advice for a reader on how to deal with baby mama drama.
Emotional self-rescue
Advice for a reader to stop counting his chicks before love has hatched.
Old wounds, lightly salted
Advice for a reader that there really is such a thing as a free lunch.
Unicorns and virgins
Joey addresses some angry responses to a recent column.
Look on the bright side
Solar farm near Fresno appeals to all, from the utility companies to the Sierra Club.
How young is too young?
My 15-year-old granddaughter is dating a college sophomore. Help!
The ex files
How to keep an ex-husband from dating your friends and an ex-wife from trespassing in your house.