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Surrendering desire

I have a loyal friend who has seen me through tough times, but I think I’ve outgrown her. She is overly sensitive, defensive and interprets…




Dance-hall days

My boyfriend and I are dance instructors. Ladies hang all over him, and he eats this up. He invariably favors certain ladies. If he sees…


Reading the heart

I’m gay and in a relationship that, until recently, was monogamous by mutual agreement. Now it’s an open relationship. I’m struggling to accept and live…



Confessions and the famous

My boyfriend is famous and has many female fans. When he was in Sacramento performing recently, we practically lived together. Since I chose to work…


Betrayal of the self

In the social club I belong to, it is very common for members to date. It’s not casual; sex is involved. Breakups are a struggle….