All Posts

Sexual addiction

I have a terrible addiction to sex. The trouble starts Saturday morning. If I don’t have plans with my live-in girlfriend or friends, I browse…

Read More

The relationship path

I dated a young lady and was unfaithful, ungrateful and stoned. When I saw my self-hate and how I was slowly destroying her, I broke…


Dragon ladies

I work with a rude, patronizing back-stabber. She is successful in her career because she possesses undeniable talent, but she only cares about advancing her…


Surrendering perfection

I am a 28-year-old African-American gay male with a wonderful partner. I have an associate’s degree in computer programming and speak Spanish and French fluently….


Casually speaking

What exactly is casual dating? Does this mean the couple is not dating exclusively? I met a guy about a month ago through a personal…


Codependent some more

I am dating a man who is friends with his ex-wife. They divorced five years ago, and she is now divorcing another man. A few…


A values audit

I’m totally stressed because the company I work for trains people to work well together but does not practice what it preaches. It’s hard to…


You don’t have to go

My partner and I broke up seven years ago after living together for 12 years. We remained close friends. About a year ago, I moved…


No friend but me

My roommate of four years and I are really good friends. We treat each other like sisters. My family loves her, and her family loves…


Holiday etiquette

The holidays are here again! Hey, will someone please tell Pat Robertson that the word “holiday” is a corruption of the words “holy day”? He…